> [!info] Personal working space > This is my personal working space. The final version of this page is at https://atharkhan.com/blog/how-to-behave-in-court-courtroom-etiquette/ ## Preparation checklist - Use the hearing notice for the correct time, department, location, and appearance method. - Allow time for security and parking; test remote connections before the hearing. - Organize papers and a brief outline of the requested order and supporting facts. - Check filing, service, and exhibit deadlines. Extra copies do not replace those requirements. - Arrange childcare where possible unless the court directs otherwise. ## Conduct in the hearing Check in as directed. Address the judicial officer as Your Honor. Follow instructions about standing or remaining seated, with accommodations as needed. Speak one person at a time, answer clearly, and keep disagreement focused on facts and documents. A short written note can help preserve a response without interrupting. > [!warning] Recording > [[Cal. Rules of Court, Rule 1.150]] governs photography, recording, and broadcasting. Personal audio recording for notes requires the judge's advance permission under subdivision (d). Remote attendance does not authorize recording. ## Leaving with a clear record Write down the orders, deadlines, and next hearing date. Ask for clarification if needed and confirm who prepares the written order. If an attorney handles a defined part of the case, check whether preparation of the order is included in [[Unbundled Legal Services]]. For preparation resources, see [[How to find Family Law Assistance at No Cost or Reduced Cost]]. Sources checked October 24, 2026: [California Courts' hearing tips](https://www.selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/tips-your-day-court), [Orange County family court preparation](https://www.occourts.org/divisions/family-law/family-law-resources/preparing-court-family-law), and rule 1.150. Follow the instructions for the actual courtroom.